Sexy and I Know It!

NaBloPoMo asks today…

Is someone hot forever once they're labeled hot? Or is hotness fleeting?

 
    When you are hot you’re hot, and when you are not, you’re not.   The state of looking hot is a lot like beauty and strictly in the eye of the beholder.  There are some folks, like me, that never reach the status of hot all their lives.  The most we can ever achieve is “cute”.   I have never in the history of time had someone look at me and said “Damn girl, you are hot!!!”  If they did, I seriously would have looked at them and figured they either needed new glasses or their head examined.  It is a state of mind and being.  Yell out “I’m sexy and I know it” to the masses and they are going to laugh themselves silly or chances are someone out there is going to believe it.  Check it out…because you got their attention!

      Some folks will do everything in their power to be hot even resorting to plastic surgery.  They pour thousands into Botox and lifts here and there until it gets to the point they no longer look like themselves.  They will hold onto youth with both hands and plastic surgeons make a killing on these people.  The sad part is instead of looking better; many times they become a grotesque version of themselves and become addicted to the process.  What disgusts me the most about plastic surgery is that it essentially screws with the cosmic universe and what God intended in the first place.  

  

     With all that said, hotness is fleeting.  If you have it when you are young, you are really lucky if you retain it as you grow older.  Often if you weren’t hot, you can sometimes obtain a level of hotness with a healthy dose of attitude.  A healthy dose of self-confidence goes a long way to being hot in my humble opinion.  Some folks grow hotter as they age.  They get better with time just like a fine wine.  Again I think that has a lot to do with that whole attitude and confidence factor.

      Why does it matter if you are hot or not?  Does hotness mean flaunting what you have and wearing as little as possible?  In some people’s minds, probably, but the bottom line is…hotness is determined on an individual basis and always in the eye of the beholder.  Walk the walk, dress the part, and get the moves…or simply be you. It is whatever works.  After careful muddling through this concept I have determined it is all about attitude and personality.   If all else fails pour some jalapenos on it and crank the heat to full blast.  If that doesn’t heat you up, nothing else will.