Monday, April 14, 2014

L is for Lonely



      

    
  Henry had been dead for six months.    During his sickness, the house bustled filled to overflowing with her family and friends.  






      


      Since the funeral they had stopped coming, leaving her alone and forgotten.  They went back to their lives.   It was as it should be.  She prayed for a reunion that only death could guarantee.













76 comments:

  1. This is so sad...loneliness at that age...this is what I fear ..and i try to make sure my parents are never alone..even if i keep calling and boring them with my relentless jibber jabber :)

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    1. Nabanita, it happens to entirely too many. People just get so caught up with their lives they simply don't realize. Thank you for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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  2. this reminds me of my mom's parents :( they had 4 daughters n nw once they r all married, they live alone. am gonna call them nw asap.. thanks kathy :)

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    1. Swathi, you are welcome! Thank you for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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  3. Loneliness tend to grow on people, I think. Very well written, Kathy.

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    1. vishal, I think you are right. Some folks like me in particular begin to really enjoy our alone time best. Thank you for stopping by and for your sweet comments. I am so pleased you enjoyed it! ♥

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  4. this made we shed a tear :( :(

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    1. Srilakshmi, I am so pleased my post moved you so. Thank you so much for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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  5. Aah! That's so sad. Loneliness in old age can be so terrible... :|

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    1. Shilpa, it surely can. Thank you so much for stopping by and for your sweet comments! I am so pleased you enjoyed my post. ♥

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  6. Ah ! the pathos.... why Kathy, why did she choose to be lonely :|
    Lovely narration !

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    1. Sreeja, I can imagine she didn't want to be a burden to others. Thank you for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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    1. Cathrina, it surely is. Thank you for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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  8. It is the truth. So sad.
    Hugs - Kathy!

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    1. Vidya, unfortunately it is very true. I watched my Dad long for my mom for years until his death. He missed her so. It didn't matter that he stayed busy or I seen him almost every day. He wanted her and to be with her. Thank you so much for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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  9. Loneliness can be frightening... So frightening that death seems like a friend. Beautiful story.

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    1. Rajlakshmi, I think in many cases it eases the transition and acceptance of death. I am so pleased you liked my story! Thank you for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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  10. This is really sad - and yet I can understand why this lady is eager to be reunited with her husband, with what her life is like in his absence!

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    1. Trisha, it truly makes a lot of sense. Thank you for stopping by and for your sweet comments! I am so pleased you enjoyed my little story! ♥

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  11. Oh.. that's sad and heart breaking!

    Loneliness is the worst.

    you have expressed hers beautifully

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    1. pixie, I am so pleased you liked it and I was able to convey her loneliness well. Thank you so much for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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  12. I feel for seniors who lose their spouse and are lonely and isolated. Must be the worst thing to endure and yet happens more and more with our families spread out and everyone so busy. A sad situation. Nice work for both challenges. You are a master at combining them.

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    1. Cathy, I am so pleased you enjoyed my story! Thank you for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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  13. i can't believe the co-incidence, but an aunt recently lost her husband to stomach cancer, and since the time people knew he was terminally ill, her house was swarming with visitors, but he passed away last fortnight, and now there is just herself.....i can't believe im reading this....

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    1. the little princess, that is ironic. WOW. Thank you for stopping by to read and for your sweet comments. My thoughts and prayers are with your aunt. My heart goes out to her. I am so pleased you liked my post. ♥

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  14. This is so touching... I have seen the situation and do dread it for myself and my other aged relatives...Thanks for sharing.

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    1. Jayanta, I am so pleased you liked it! Thank you so much for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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  15. Indeed nothing as lonely as a greiving heart at an old age

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    1. Mina, it is sad. Thank you for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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  16. Time to go sky diving and bungee jumping

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    1. Pat, oh my! LOL! Thank you for stopping by and for your entertaining comments. I am so pleased you enjoyed my post. ♥

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  17. Sad when it happens to old age people...the age when they want to be with people! Amazing post! A warm touch to it!

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    1. Danny, I am so pleased you enjoyed my story! Thank you so much for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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  18. Profoundly sad and so well conveyed with few words. Well done, Kathy!

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    1. Debbie, I am so pleased you enjoyed it. Thank you so much for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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  19. That is the worst, when the visitors stop visiting...A big story in so few words!

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  20. Oh, that was so sad. So sad in so few words.

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    1. Madeline, I am so pleased you liked it! Thanks so much for stopping by to read and for your sweet comments. ♥

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  21. So many emotions welled up in me with such few words! Great write Kathy!

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    1. Aditi, I am so pleased you liked my story. Thank you so much for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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    1. Joe, I am so happy you liked it! Thanks so much for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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  23. Old people need their partners to survive. They wither away in their absence, sad and tragic story.

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    1. sulekkha, I don't care how old I would be, if my husband ever dies...I will wither away and die. I can not imagine life without him. I would be like my dad, pining for my true love and death. I just know it! Thank you for stopping by to read and for your sweet comments! I am so pleased you enjoyed my story! ♥

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  24. This is a true and heart wrenching reality! This was painful yet powerfully expressed!

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    1. Shesha, I am so pleased you enjoyed it! Thank you for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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  25. Beautiful in expression and such a sad truth. They live together for so long that it's tough to face it alone.

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    1. Shailaja, it sure is and it makes sense. Her whole life was her husband for probably most of her life...then one day he is gone. I am so happy you enjoyed my post! Thank you so much for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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  26. Very well expressed Kathy, loneliness is scarier than death and more painful.

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    1. Reshma, very true. Thank you for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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  28. Wonderful write, Kathy. I can feel the emotions the widow has. Maybe some of the mourners stayed away even when the husband was alive, but only turned up for the funeral, out of respect. Who knows why she waits for death. Loneliness can nibble away at the minds of people.

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    1. Michelle, it surely can. Thank you for stopping by and for your sweet comments. I am so happy you enjoyed my story! ♥

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  29. A sad reality. In the end you have to deal with your grief on your own.

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    1. tulika, it is a road you have to go down and come to terms with on your own. Thank you for stopping by to read and for your sweet comments! ♥

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  30. Hello there. Death befalls us all due to inherited sin from Adam. (Romans 5:12) It's a normal , human reaction to be sad and grieve. However, Jehovah God has promised us a time in the coming future when our loved ones will be resurrected from the dead, there'll be no more sickness, no more pain and no more death. Imagine the prospect of seeing your loved ones again and then NEVER dying! (John 5:29, 29; Acts 24:15; Revelation 21:3-5)
    Thanks for sharing.
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    1. Entrepreneurial Goddess, I look forward to it. Thank you for stopping by and for you sweet comments! ♥

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  31. Maybe that is why we need to make friends other than just couple friends... you never know when one of us needs them.

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    1. Nisha, very true! Thank you for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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  32. A touching post about a sad and very tough reality for several people I know, some in my family too. Really hard.

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    1. Beloo, It is hard but a sad reality for so many. Thank you for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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  33. So true to life, Kathy. People forget and it's so hard as they get older.

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    1. Corinne, I have seen it first hand with my grandparents and then my dad. Thank you for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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  34. We flock to the dying, but leave the living to fend for themeselves. SO poignantly expressed in such few words.

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    1. D Biswas, so very true! And it is sad. When we are dead it is too late! They should have something to do with us before that. Seriously! I am so pleased you enjoyed reading my story. Thank you so much for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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  35. That's so sad. I pray we never have to face this loneliness.

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    1. Suzy, I am with you. Thank you for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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  36. This breaks my heart, mostly because I believe it does happen.

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    1. jannatwrites, I know it does and have seen it. Thank you for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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  37. My parents died too young and I did not experience this. Now, however, I am watching my brother whose wife has had Alzheimer's for 15 years. He has been so lonely and now he is very ill as well. Such a lonely place for him. Nicely written post

    Carol @ Battered Hope

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    1. Carol, my mom died at 51 and my dad pined for her till his death at the age of 65. They were both too young in my opinion. So sad for your brother. Thank you so much for stopping by and reading my post! ♥

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  38. OOO, my heart.
    Sometimes death is the only way to find your true peace again.
    x

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    1. myinnerchick, yes and in that case death can be a friend. Thank you so much for stopping by and for your sweet comments! ♥

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